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‘That’s So Crazy’
Why the way we talk about mental health matters
A year ago, for one month, I ran a private experiment. Whenever I heard someone say the words “crazy” or “insane,” I surreptitiously recorded the event in a notes doc on my phone. I recorded instances of “schizophrenic or “schizo” too, though those happened less often. I wrote the time (most of the time) and context and only noted the speaker if it was someone famous, like on TV or in a song. As in my first entry, the afternoon of the first day of the month:
1. 5:00 pm PST “Crazy” by Britney on the radio at a grocery store in San Francisco
I began this exercise because I wanted to better understand a facet of our vernacular that had come to irritate me greatly. It’s a two-parter.
First: We use words like “insane” and “crazy” a lot.
Second: When we use them, we don’t often use them literally. In other words, we don’t use them to speak about craziness or insanity. Having recently completed a book about my late uncle, Bob, who was diagnosed with schizophrenia, I was aware of just how little language people tend to have for this topic. In my experience, most people are uncomfortable and unpracticed talking about insanity, craziness, madness, mental illness. They do so vaguely, and with lowered voices and fallen eyes. Many favor…
