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Erotic Despair
The Body in Love and Sickness
It begins in the synapses. Jesus, does it ever. First half a pill, and then a whole one, and I am floating in a twilight I remember from my early 20s of sad holidays with a boy who I loved and who hurt me, pills and a rumpled bed and drawn blinds and a flashing blue television.
Now, this time, the pills are to quell my anxiety and hopefully, in turn, an immune system that lashes out indiscriminately, eating away the bone in my pelvis. There’s not supposed to be a gap there, the doctor says, pointing to the blackness on a screen. You’re lucky. Most women don’t come in until their spines have started fusing. And I am doing this to myself, or more precisely, my immune system is doing this, attacking every healthy thing it can find, first my intestines which it eats to ulcers, and once I have convinced it otherwise, my hips.
I am 33 and I walk with a limp. I cannot get out of the car. My he of now has to move me in and out of bed. Can you roll me over? I’m just trying to roll over. In the morning I cannot walk until I figure out how I can, carefully, with my knee locked, if I come down straight on top of the bone, perfectly straight, because otherwise, my God, otherwise. I do not sleep and I do not sleep and I do not sleep and then a migraine. At the hospital the next day the doctor twists my leg gently, innocently, and I…
