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A Wheelchair Can’t be a Woman

A person in a wheelchair is often defined by the chair and therefore isn’t a woman either

Illustration by Kate Gavino

I’I’ve tossed my high heels by the hotel’s bedside table. I’m looking at my pile of clothes — unpacked, not put away — strewn across the couch, thinking of what I might change into when I take my dress off, wondering how to get from my wheelchair to his body now that…




A new magazine from Roxane Gay offering some of the most interesting and thoughtful cultural criticism to be found on the Web. Our first quarterly is coming in June 2019. We value deep explorations, timelessness, and challenging conventional thinking without being cheap and lazy.

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Erin Clark

Erin Clark

Author of the NYTimes recommended memoir If You Really Love Me Throw Me Off the Mountain (EyeCorner Press).

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